Comforting Words

by deborah on April 27, 2008

As I sit here by the bedside of my grandmother in Florida, I find these words give me comfort:

“It is good to have a reminder of death before us, for it helps us to understand the impermanence of life on this earth, and this understanding may aid us in preparing for our own death.”

Black Elk
Oglala Sioux

My sister points out that this reminder of death also helps us better prepare for our life going forward.

No one knows where the Spirit World is.
The ancient people said that it is beyond the pines.
The pine trees are at the edge of the world,
and beyond them is the path of the winds.
The Spirit Way begins there at the edge of the world
among the stars, and the winds will tell the spirits of people where to find it.

What is Life?
It is the flash of a firefly in the night.
It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime.
It is the little shadow that runs across the grass
and loses itself in the sunset.

Paul Goble
Beyond The Ridge Plains
Indian Tradition
Bradbury Press, 1989

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{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }

Collin Kelley April 27, 2008 at 5:48 pm

Sorry to hear about your grandmother. Thinking of you.

Sally Molini April 28, 2008 at 12:21 pm

Hope she’s feeling better. Wishing every good thing for you and your family.

stephanopoulos April 28, 2008 at 2:39 pm

My grandmother died a week ago from yesterday.

I just heard that Jason Shinder, awesome poet and dear friend of one of my post-MFA@UFL mentors, just passed away from cancer.

What IS it with all of the death and sadness these days?

I hope your grandmother is hanging tight.

Nate April 28, 2008 at 3:56 pm

Deb:

My most heartfelt condolences. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Be well.

Karen Weyant April 28, 2008 at 5:11 pm

Thinking of you. Karen

Marie Gauthier April 30, 2008 at 1:16 pm

Sending all my best hopes & wishes…

deborah May 11, 2008 at 9:20 am

Thank you everyone. I appreciate the sentiments.

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